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As a woman you need to surround yourself with fellow women of strong character, your to go to peeps, your shadow and your light in darkness and this is why........ 1. For yourself - You need a true friend, someone you can put your guard down with, you need someone not afraid to kick your ass and ask you to get up when you are having BS or behaving like an ass. Someone to cry with when you break your toe nail, someone to walk with you in this maze of life. You need that one pe rson that will drop everything and be on your side and stay there even when you insist you want to be alone, someone who will push you because they know your potential and will not accept mediocre from you. You need someone who will tell you, that fifth child your planning to have is a very bad idea because they know your youngest is still in diapers and understand your situation. Yes you need someone for you. 2. For your partner - you need someone to let them know you are special and will kick...

Happy birthday Rigz as you turn 13 today Where did time go?, I ask, when did you grow? As you officially enter teenage Rigz, I want to repeat the promises I made to you when you were born, be your mother to care tend and nurture, your friend for a shoulder to lean on your supporter and champion in all you do and your confidant. As you enter this age that separates you from childhood and veers you into adulthood, I want you to remember that I am your compass when you get lost think of me and you will know your true North and from hence you will get your direction back home. I want you to know that your friends may seem more important than us now and its OK but remember the values you have learned and don't sacrifice your character so you can look trendy, sometimes its OK to stand alone on firm ground. As from today you start a journey that may have turns and bends unfamiliar, ask and seek guidance, there is no shame in not knowing. Other hobbies will start interesti...

Day by day I think of no other and as night nears,  I want you nearer .  If a kiss is what you want,   be it there or anywhere else  You have it my honey  For I want you to drink from the well of my pit. My bosom heaves with wonder,  as I await that tender touch  and when you touch me there,   I know I will not dare breathe again I had the taste,  And all nights, I dream of sucking it with my mouth A man reserves his true and deepest love,   not for the species of woman,   in whose company he finds himself electrified and en kindled,  but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy Then we will wait patiently for that day of wonder,  when we shall not speak but feel,  And let our hearts talk to each other A flower cannot blossom without sunshine,  And man cannot live without love,  I love you and you are my sunshine

Dear God as my children start a new term today, guide protect and lead them to have a wonderful time with their friends and teachers. They spend more time in school than at home and so I pray that the school will be a friendly place for them and their friends. Let them grow in learning not just the subjects that grow the brain but also the values that grow the character, let.them learn the virtues that will make them walk in your spirit and be right with their teachers and fellows. Grant them good health of body and mind and a firm belief in you. Lord help their teachers to have the patience to deal with their activity and impatience and the wisdom to guide them in the right path. Help me to play my part and support their endeavour. Thank you for your continued love. For this and much more I pray. Amen.

Dear sisters and myself at the end of a relationship as you rant about how bad he was and all the nasty names you call him, breathe, inhale, exhale then make a list of all the things you did not do right, yes you are not as holy as you imagine you are in this, it is your fault as much as it is his. Even if your list starts with how foolish could I be, do it name every little fault of his and exaggerate it 100 times but make your list too even if you downplay it to almost 0% influence to the breakup. Its only when we are able to see what we did wrong in relating with others that we can actually grow and avoid making the same mistakes. Then my sisters you will stop feeling like you only attract losers. And by the way losers are not so bad, they may not help us know want we want in a relationship but with them we get to know exactly what we do not want. Have a great day. Whatever you do breath.

We struggle so much for so little, a little attention there, some recognition here, applause, name them and like flies on fresh shit we hover around to have our buzzing heard for attention. We are fanned away, but like the flies we retreat only a little and are back on the item to get a little bit of something. We end up dying trying to impress those who don't even notice us. We don't even see the ones who genuinely interested in us. They pass us with out us even offering a glance as we are busy hovering over shit. We are preoccupied with that shit and our search for attention and this from the wrong quarters. Then one day we look back and wonder, where are we?, what happened? how did we end up here? But by then, we have noticed like the fly (if we are not dead yet) the shit has dried up it is no longer alluring. Unfortunately those we ignored and did not pay attention to are gone too. Wacha tabia ya nzi kung'ang'ania mavi

Its hard to distinguish between mapaja na mapacha unless you know the story of fungua mapaja upate mapacha. If I die I want it to be said that there lies a great woman, I know I will not hear it but it is important for all those who will come after me.  Also let them say there in that mound that now lies docile lived a very active soul, I would also like them to say she was a survivor to the end ironic ah yes please. Mama you make me proud, I always thought I was the one who was destined to do so but each day I see I can never make you as proud as you make me. If there is need to gain the whole world let me start by gaining my soul for what is the need to gain the whole world and lose that one part where I can dwell Man is born free but everywhere he goes he is in chains sometimes put on by himself Eat when you are hungry and pleas do it in the right ratios. A rhino will not stop to attach you because you are a vegetarian just as a lion will not stop to kill you because...